make new words, that’s what i’m saying!!! you’ll feel better!!
for real i love my working definition of queerplatonic because having it not exist on a platonic-romantic spectrum and instead defining it as something off the grid and entirely different has been SO liberating because it reinforces that all of my feelings in the context of my qp relationship are valid!! and i don’t have to worry about working them into a binary between platonic and romantic!!!
if our world wasn’t so amatonormative and heteronormative and we actually had more relationship words i feel like a lot of people wouldn’t even define their relationships in terms of romantic/platonic or would define very few of their relationships in that way